Dr. O, Carey O'Rielly, DDS, Holistic Dental Health

Dr. O’s Calming Supports

A for Anxiety: Dental Visit Preparation & Recovery Protocol

Be sure to speak to your dentist if you feel that a prescription for Xanax or Valium might be necessary to support your dental visit. If you would like to try some alternative support, here is a simple guide combining muscle relaxants, nervous system support, homeopathics, and soft-food care.

📅 The Day Before

  • Hydration: Drinking plenty of water throughout the day to ensure well-hydrated oral tissues.
  • Aromatherapy: Diffusing calming oils like Lavender, Clary Sage or Roman Chamomile essential oil can help, even when you aren't going to the dentist.

🌙 The Night Before (Stretch, Wind-Down & Sleep)

Physical/Muscle Relaxation (30–40 Mins Before Bed)

  • Magnesium (200–400 mg): Complements Valerian to ease muscle contraction and physical fatigue.
  • Valerian Root (300–600 mg): Functions as a physical muscle relaxant to soothe body tension, jaw tightness, and restlessness. Extracts are also available to take in warm water. (It has an extremely pungent smell!)
  • Yoga: Here are two simple relaxation poses:
Child's pose
Child's pose
Happy Baby pose
Happy Baby

Mental Quieting & Brain Support (At Bedtime)

  • L-Theanine (100–200 mg): Promotes calm alpha brainwave activity without causing morning grogginess.
  • Aconite 30c (3–5 pellets under tongue): Take if experiencing sudden anticipatory fear, panic, or "shocked" nervous system arousal.
  • Chamomilla 30c (3–5 pellets under tongue): Take if feeling hyper-reactive, emotionally agitated, or mentally restless due to stress.

☀️ The Morning Of

60 Mins Before Appointment

  • Eat a cracker with butter (or a bite of food) to cushion your stomach.
  • Take daytime physical calms: Magnesium (200 mg) and L-Theanine (100 mg). (Skip Valerian in the morning to prevent physical sluggishness in the dental chair.)

50 Mins Before Appointment

  • Brush thoroughly with non-mint toothpaste. Mint can diminish homeopathic remedy effectiveness. So can coffee.

35 Mins Before Appointment

  • Aconite 30c (3–5 pellets under tongue): Addresses acute morning jitters or fear right before departure.

🪑 In the Chair (During Procedure)

  • Sensory Anchor: Dab lavender oil or other calming essential oil like clary sage or geranium on a tissue or your wrist to inhale as needed.
  • Acute Panic Back-Up: Take a repeat dose of Aconite 30c (for panic/fear) or Rescue Remedy (4 drops) if anxiety surges while waiting.

🏡 After the Appointment (Recovery & Healing)

Homeopathic Remedy Rotation

RemedyBest Used ForTiming & Dosage
Arnica 30cPhysical jaw soreness, muscle strain, and deep tissue bruising3–5 pellets under tongue upon arriving home
Hypericum 30cSharp, shooting, radiating nerve pain or localized gum or nerve irritation3–5 pellets under tongue in afternoon/evening as needed
Chamomilla 30cGeneral hypersensitivity to touch, irritability, or low pain threshold3–5 pellets under tongue if feeling emotionally overwhelmed

Rule of Thumb: Maintain a 15-minute gap between taking homeopathic pellets and consuming food, drinks, or toothpaste.

🥣 Soft-Food Quick Guide

Wait until local numbness completely fades before eating solid foods to prevent accidental cheek or tongue biting.

First Few Hours (Cold & Soothing)Later in the Evening (Warm & Soft)
Plain or Greek YogurtLukewarm Blended Soups (Tomato, Squash, Potato)
Applesauce & Fruit PureesSoft Whipped Mashed Potatoes or Sweet Potatoes
Fruit Smoothies (Drink directly from glass, NO STRAW!)Soft Scrambled Eggs (cooked low & slow)
Pudding or CustardSmooth Oatmeal or Cream of Wheat

⚠ Warning: Never use a straw when drinking smoothies or liquids after dental work. Suction creates negative pressure in the mouth that can dislodge blood clots or disturb healing tissues.

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