Be sure to speak to your dentist if you feel that a prescription for Xanax or Valium might be necessary to support your dental visit. If you would like to try some alternative support, here is a simple guide combining muscle relaxants, nervous system support, homeopathics, and soft-food care.
📅 The Day Before
- Hydration: Drinking plenty of water throughout the day to ensure well-hydrated oral tissues.
- Aromatherapy: Diffusing calming oils like Lavender, Clary Sage or Roman Chamomile essential oil can help, even when you aren't going to the dentist.
🌙 The Night Before (Stretch, Wind-Down & Sleep)
Physical/Muscle Relaxation (30–40 Mins Before Bed)
- Magnesium (200–400 mg): Complements Valerian to ease muscle contraction and physical fatigue.
- Valerian Root (300–600 mg): Functions as a physical muscle relaxant to soothe body tension, jaw tightness, and restlessness. Extracts are also available to take in warm water. (It has an extremely pungent smell!)
- Yoga: Here are two simple relaxation poses:


Mental Quieting & Brain Support (At Bedtime)
- L-Theanine (100–200 mg): Promotes calm alpha brainwave activity without causing morning grogginess.
- Aconite 30c (3–5 pellets under tongue): Take if experiencing sudden anticipatory fear, panic, or "shocked" nervous system arousal.
- Chamomilla 30c (3–5 pellets under tongue): Take if feeling hyper-reactive, emotionally agitated, or mentally restless due to stress.
☀️ The Morning Of
60 Mins Before Appointment
- Eat a cracker with butter (or a bite of food) to cushion your stomach.
- Take daytime physical calms: Magnesium (200 mg) and L-Theanine (100 mg). (Skip Valerian in the morning to prevent physical sluggishness in the dental chair.)
50 Mins Before Appointment
- Brush thoroughly with non-mint toothpaste. Mint can diminish homeopathic remedy effectiveness. So can coffee.
35 Mins Before Appointment
- Aconite 30c (3–5 pellets under tongue): Addresses acute morning jitters or fear right before departure.
🪑 In the Chair (During Procedure)
- Sensory Anchor: Dab lavender oil or other calming essential oil like clary sage or geranium on a tissue or your wrist to inhale as needed.
- Acute Panic Back-Up: Take a repeat dose of Aconite 30c (for panic/fear) or Rescue Remedy (4 drops) if anxiety surges while waiting.
🏡 After the Appointment (Recovery & Healing)
Homeopathic Remedy Rotation
| Remedy | Best Used For | Timing & Dosage |
|---|---|---|
| Arnica 30c | Physical jaw soreness, muscle strain, and deep tissue bruising | 3–5 pellets under tongue upon arriving home |
| Hypericum 30c | Sharp, shooting, radiating nerve pain or localized gum or nerve irritation | 3–5 pellets under tongue in afternoon/evening as needed |
| Chamomilla 30c | General hypersensitivity to touch, irritability, or low pain threshold | 3–5 pellets under tongue if feeling emotionally overwhelmed |
Rule of Thumb: Maintain a 15-minute gap between taking homeopathic pellets and consuming food, drinks, or toothpaste.
🥣 Soft-Food Quick Guide
Wait until local numbness completely fades before eating solid foods to prevent accidental cheek or tongue biting.
| First Few Hours (Cold & Soothing) | Later in the Evening (Warm & Soft) |
|---|---|
| Plain or Greek Yogurt | Lukewarm Blended Soups (Tomato, Squash, Potato) |
| Applesauce & Fruit Purees | Soft Whipped Mashed Potatoes or Sweet Potatoes |
| Fruit Smoothies (Drink directly from glass, NO STRAW!) | Soft Scrambled Eggs (cooked low & slow) |
| Pudding or Custard | Smooth Oatmeal or Cream of Wheat |
⚠ Warning: Never use a straw when drinking smoothies or liquids after dental work. Suction creates negative pressure in the mouth that can dislodge blood clots or disturb healing tissues.
